I belong to a lot of online single parenting/co-parenting groups and have seen and even responded to some of the same types of questions asked when it comes to sharing financial responsibility of children with your ex. Whether that’s through child support or reimbursements for…
One of the biggest myths in co-parenting is that both households need to run exactly the same way. Same rules, same routines, same everything. The honest truth? You don’t have to parent identically for your children to feel safe, loved, and secure. Co-Parenting: When Collaboration…
It’s officially September. What does that mean? Well for starters, Fall will officially be here in 21 days. As fall comes, so does the crisp air, golden leaves, and all the cozy moments we’ve been waiting for. If you’re looking for ways to soak up…
Tomorrow is a big day, the girls are heading back to school, starting 2nd and 4th grade! I still can’t fathom that. Even though they met their teachers this morning, the night before the first day always comes with a mix of emotions. There’s excitement…
This past weekend, the girls and I packed up our camping gear and headed out to Brialee Campground in Ashford, CT, and wow, what an amazing experience it turned out to be! From the moment we arrived, we were welcomed by the friendliest staff. The…
Camping with children can be equal parts magical and messy, but that’s exactly what makes it unforgettable. Fresh air, wide-open spaces, and the joy of unplugging from screens for a bit create the perfect backdrop for building family memories
Nearly three years ago, a long-term relationship came to an end. One contributing factor was infidelity, involving a relationship with my then partner and another married individual. This event, along with circumstances that followed, significantly altered the course of the family’s future. While it was…
Co-parenting after a breakup is rarely easy, but when you’re dealing with a narcissistic ex, the challenges multiply, especially when they continuously disregard court-approved parenting agreements. These agreements are not just formalities. They are put in place to ensure stability, consistency, and the well-being of…
As the final stretch of summer approaches, single dads everywhere are looking at the calendar and wondering, Where the fu*k did the time go? Between work, navigating custody schedules, and juggling responsibilities, the weeks of summer flew by. But here’s the good news: there’s still…
As parents, we know the struggle all too well: the dinner table becomes a battlefield when it comes to getting our kids to eat anything beyond chicken nuggets and mac and cheese
Not everyone has a sense of humor these days. Many people seem more serious, sensitive, and tense. Humor isn’t valued as it once was. If you’re exhausted by the seriousness around you, you’ll likely want to meet a woman who enjoys a good laugh. Being…
It can be difficult, if not devasting to spend any time away from our kids. We men help bring these children into this world expecting to spend time with them, to be with them every day. We expect to eat dinner with them after a…
What is a serial monogamist? Betterhelp.com describes a Serial Monogamist as “someone who is always in a relationship or frequently seeking a relationship. Often the switch between relationships happens quickly and impulsively”. Usually, when a relationship ends, you grieve the loss of that relationship, heal…
Ahh, the day is done. You come home from work, cook dinner, help with any homework, make lunches for the next day and if it is a bath/shower night, just add that to the list of things to do. Now, it’s time to put the…
Even though I am a dad and a blogger, some of my posts will also be relevant to those single moms out there. I just may use the word “dad” more in my blog. 1. People will give undue credit to your ex. One of…
Before we dive into the ways a Narcissist treats their ex, lets first get some information just in case you aren’t aware of who or what they are. How do people become Narcissists? When researching for this post, this was a very interesting question on…
As a dad, you eventually want to teach your children about responsibility, character-building, and the value of hard work. One effective way to instill these qualities is by assigning chores to your kids. Not only do chores teach important life skills, but they also create…
First off, Co-Parenting and Parallel Parenting. How are they different? Co-parenting is a process where both parents share the same values, principles, and ideas about what’s best for their children. Even though they may have two homes, they can mimic each other when co-parenting. They…
As we all know, sleep is vital for all our normal functions, in both mind and body. However, so many of us today don’t get anywhere near the amount we should. The NIH (National Institute of Health) states that adults should get between 7 and…
Self-care has been a long practice associated with well-being and holistic health which has become increasingly essential in the lives of men. The demands of work, family, and shared expectations can be overwhelming, but prioritizing one’s self-care is not a sign of weakness, but a…
If you haven’t already heard of a “Yes Day” then you will surely know what it is by the end of this post and that you should totally have one. In 2001, Netflix made a movie based on the book with the same name that…
Coparenting is nothing new. It is different for everyone, and everyone has their own way of managing it with their ex. Healthy co-parenting is the method of parenting together in a way that prioritizes the child and their needs. I have read many articles and…
Living with a narcissistic parent can be exhausting and emotionally draining. They may seem self-centered, demanding, or even manipulative, leaving you constantly questioning your worth and wondering how to protect your own well-being. If you suspect your mother or father has narcissistic tendencies, it’s important…